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Base your choice on where you're allowed to live and work legally first. Then learn the language. All these countries are relatively conservative in areas so it really depends where you'll be staying. Obviously big cities, you'll be fine. More rural places you might struggle with LGBTQ+.
Even the Dutch don't speak Dutch ๐ , they all speak English.
I assure you the Dutch speak Dutch. Many Dutch people also know English because it's a mandatory subject in school, but if I said that in the UK they don't speak English, and that they all speak French, would you think I was accurately describing the situation in the UK?
Who says the Dutch don't have a sense of humour? ๐