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yes! thank you! I think they meant it in the sense that online communication can be easier for ND folk, but you eventually have to meet in person and also what you said about not being able to see red flags. I was definitely in that spot talking to people online as a youngin and that wasn't even through dating apps!
society is excellent at putting this pressure, especially coming from a family being one of the younger cousins, with all the others having felt that "pressure" to "find someone". I think people comment about things like this because they were once insecure about it! I 100% want to meet new people, but not in a dating context. I'm doing that anyway just by interacting with people in various settings :)