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Idk why the fuck around this time of year my brain starts caving in on itself. Spring to autumn im ok then it hits the end of the year then jan/feb i just implode. Then come march april i start being ok again.

I just cant be fucking doing this every year do i need to book a holiday to fucking eyebeefa in winter like all my gammony peers? Im sick of the memories of my life being staring at grey skies why does it hurt me so bad? Its stupid? Why does a grey sky make me sad?

Its like i need a constant feed of valium for 6 months a year im like burning half my life away feeling miserable because its not sunny i cant live like this

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[–] Arahnya@hexbear.net 2 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

this year i'm doing really well. I won't list off the reasons why but, I feel that it's definitely linked to the way that I changed my lifestyle during this period of time.

that's interesting that you mentioned gray skies. When I was watching the sunset yesterday, I was looking at the sky and how gray it was. I also remembered a time when I felt like you, and looking at the gray sky felt depressing. Yesterday, the sky looked beautiful to me, like a beautiful moonstone. I'm not sure why my perception has changed so much.

edit : oh I saw that you're looking for advice so I'll list some things.

Vitamin D supplement, magnesium oxide supplement, occasional vitamin B12 supplement, generally making sure I'm getting all the nutrients I need. exposing myself to light as soon as I wake up, spending as much time in the sun as possible, exercising sufficiently so that I'm tired, watching the sunset, limiting any stimulating substances such as caffeine or weed past the middle of the day, limiting Screen Time or any blue light sources three hours before bedtime, going to bed at a regular time every night.