Men's Liberation
This community is first and foremost a feminist community for men and masc people, but it is also a place to talk about men’s issues with a particular focus on intersectionality.
Rules
Everybody is welcome, but this is primarily a space for men and masc people
Non-masculine perspectives are incredibly important in making sure that the lived experiences of others are present in discussions on masculinity, but please remember that this is a space to discuss issues pertaining to men and masc individuals. Be kind, open-minded, and take care that you aren't talking over men expressing their own lived experiences.
Be productive
Be proactive in forming a productive discussion. Constructive criticism of our community is fine, but if you mainly criticize feminism or other people's efforts to solve gender issues, your post/comment will be removed.
Keep the following guidelines in mind when posting:
- Build upon the OP
- Discuss concepts rather than semantics
- No low effort comments
- No personal attacks
Assume good faith
Do not call other submitters' personal experiences into question.
No bigotry
Slurs, hate speech, and negative stereotyping towards marginalized groups will not be tolerated.
No brigading
Do not participate if you have been linked to this discussion from elsewhere. Similarly, links to elsewhere on the threadiverse must promote constructive discussion of men’s issues.
Recommended Reading
- The Will To Change: Men, Masculinity, And Love by bell hooks
- Politics of Masculinities: Men in Movements by Michael Messner
Related Communities
!feminism@beehaw.org
!askmen@lemmy.world
!mensmentalhealth@lemmy.world
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This reeks of the same type of stuff as "just get outside to cure your depression" or "have you tried just not thinking like that?" for mental health issues.
If someone could be reached by telling them "just reach out, its that simple", they weren't the ones we need to be reaching. For sure it'd help, and there may be some people this resonates to. If so, great for them. But we have a major problem with isolated men, and those usually aren't ones who this will be helpful for, any more than an article addressing the mental health crisis by saying "just try more" solves that problem.
I think we need to be reaching out, but IMO the focus isn't on using words that are incredibly loaded, particularly for those people we're trying to reach and connect with. Those of us who are doing better should be reaching out, like the author said, and making those connections, but that won't solve this loneliness crisis.
like any social issue, reaching out isn't doing shit. you can't 'reach out' to the homeless really.
what you need to do is change the material conditions such that homelessness isn't an appealing option... you have to give people opportunity. and we are living in a society that is destroying opportunity and then shifting the blame back on individuals for being 'failures' for not somehow squeezing blood out of a stone.