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Welcome to c/disabled, an anticapitalist community for disabled people/people with disability(s).
What is disability justice? Disability justice is a framework of activism which centers disabled people of multiple intersections. Before participating in in this community, please read the Ten Principles of Disability Justice.
Do I count as disabled/a person with disability(s)? "Disability" is an umbrella term which encompasses physical disabilities, emotional/psychiatric disabilities, neurodivergence, intellectual/developmental disabilities, sensory disabilities, invisible disabilities, and more. You do not have to have an official diagnosis to consider yourself disabled.
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- This comm is open to everyone. However, the megathread is only open to people who self-identify as disabled/a person with disability(s). We center the experiences of disabled people here, and if you are abled we ask that you please respect that.
- Follow the principles of disability justice, as outlined in the link above.
- Zero tolerance for ableism. That includes lateral ableism. Ableism will result in a ban.
- No COVID minimization.
- Do not offer unsoliticed health advice. We do not want to hear about the wonders of exercise or meditation, thank you very much. Additionally, do not moralize health or "healthy choices".
- If posting an image, please write an image description for our blind/low vision comrades. (If doing this is inaccessible to you, DM one of the mods and we will help.)
- Please CW and spoiler tag discussions of ableism.
- When it comes to identify-first vs person-first language, respect the language that people choose for themselves. If someone wants to be referred to as a disabled person, respect that. If someone wants to be referred to as a person with a disability, respect that.
- Try to avoid using ableist language. It is always good to be mindful of the way language has been used to oppress and harm people.
- Follow the Hexbear Code of Conduct.
Let's kick back and have fun!
As of December 2025, there is a Matrix Chat Room that adheres to the same rules as the community. If you want to join, it is an invite only server. Just knock to join. Should you have trouble with the link, you can contact the mods for help: https://matrix.to/#/#Hexbear_Disabled_and_ND:matrix.org
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Haven't checked in lately because I'm been working a lot, and relying way too much on drugs and alcohol lately. I won't get into the drugs part so probably don't need spoiler tags. I do need to cut back on alcohol though.
I get unsupervised visitation rights for my kids. But I suspect that is so my ex can go do whatever she now does in her free time. She's been lying to me about almost everything this whole divorce process and I'm probably gonna email her lawyer and add to the list of my "demands" that she stops lying. I'd rather hear a shitty truth than deal with her extremely bad attempts at lying, especially when it involves my kids.
The band project is stuck in schedule hell right now but once we figure that out, we have a guitarist, drummer and now possible other bassist. If this bassist joins on, I'm considering switching to main vocals full time and helping with writing music while I continue to relearn bass. Turns out it's actually kind of like riding a bike. I'm working on alternate picking since it's something I never really got down when I played last. For the band's sound, I wanted to go with older hardcore punk but now I'm thinking about doing closer to early 2000's hardcore(Hopesfall, Poison the Well, On Broken Wings, The Number Twelve Looks Like You, etc. But I still want the politically charged themes. I'm working on lyrics for a few songs that focus on my own mental health, communist revolution, trans rights, and landback. I'm also working on my fry screams and I think I got them fairly nailed down at this point. I even have my own twist on them for a bit of flair lol.
I think that's about it. I'm watching The Sopranos for the first time since I told my friend I'd give it a go. Also first time watching Boondocks. I'm enjoying both so far.
Glad to hear you're doing okay, comrade, hope things continue in a better direction for you
Appreciate ya!