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More and more I’m realizing that many subs truly feel as though they deserve domination. I just like physical pain and going along with the bit. We are not the same.
I'd say to some degree this is something of the distinction between someone who is primarily a masochist and someone who is primarily a submissive.
Speaking from personal experience (me), having a strong fetishized draw to the actual act of submission and not having a masochistic bone in my body, it really is a very different thing, yea, and often does connect to non-sexual personality traits and values and such.
Well said. I definitely fall into the masochist camp