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I am not happy making music anymore (hexbear.net)
submitted 3 days ago by corgiwithalaptop@hexbear.net to c/chat@hexbear.net
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Its been almost 3 months since ive picked up my guitar. I have to play a show next week and I do not give a fuck about it at all. My band has more or less stopped talking to each other, and I have not felt compelled to play my instrument in months despite owning thousands of dollars worth of shit.

I hate other musicians, I hate playing shows in this city, I hate all the big bands in this city, this city can lick my taint.

Only thing is, ive been doing this thing for 10 years, official anniversary is this coming july, and i dont know that I want to stop completely. I feel like I would be letting people in my life down outside of the band itself. My partner, my friends, my family, and to some extent myself.

I dont know what to do and I want to cry and scream

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[–] Hestia@hexbear.net 6 points 3 days ago

Sounds like it’s time to cut ties. If your band doesn’t even talk anymore they’re only going to bog down any passion you still have left for music. Take a break, explore a different interest a while, and if/when you decide to pick up your instrument again, do it on your own terms for reasons that belong to you and you alone.