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A place to post memes & images that won't absolutely obliterate your mental health! Memes must not stray into hopelessness and be generally positive or neutral.

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[–] Gork@sopuli.xyz 14 points 4 days ago (3 children)

I 'member when they were called PMs, and were Private.

Then the social media Bros took over and removed the privacy and called them DMs.

[–] CatZoomies@lemmy.world 9 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Even PMs were never private though. I used to run forum software (both Invision Power Board and phpBB 20 years ago in the early 2000s) on my web site and PMs were records in the MySQL DB. I never did, but I could read anyone’s PMs if I wanted to.

Yep I was admin on a site too there was a way to do it. I never did though

I remember PMs too! I still call them that sometimes

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 1 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

DMs are just as private as PMs. It's not like server admins/app operators could not also see the messages in past services when we called them PMs.