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submitted 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) by go_birds@sh.itjust.works to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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What would a FOSS dating app look like?

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[–] vfreire85@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

My two cents on dating apps in general:

I would rather have something that actually marks someone as willing to have a relationship instead of clinging to people that for some reason are not available; maybe I'm just lazy of knowing people, but on the other side it skips some hurdles and puts me on contact with someone I might have taken a long time to know, if at all;
on the other side, dating apps really reward someone physically attractive or at least that uploads the best photos. I've met several people who in person are alright for me which I wouldn't swipe if I met them in an app. Also, after I actually paid a professional photographer to shoot a set of me and uploaded the pics on apps, I received more likes in a single week than during my entire life, even though nothing fundamentally changed and I'm still the same.