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Extremely common. In gaming, twitch, YouTube comments, forums, 9gag comments, Reddit... The presence of women has been minuscule for a long while, and that's translated as hostile to women.
Really? I don't even remember the last time 9gag was known for anything other than being uncool and irrelevant.
Sounds like you're in a bubble of a lot of sexist communities. That's real unfortunate- you should maybe try to get out of that.
Why are you saying I am in those spaces now? You asked in past tense, I answered how it was 15 years ago.
I left most of those a long time ago and several have changed. It's important to remember history, 15 years is pretty recent.
some people in certain communities get high on their own farts by thinking everything there is sexist, any anyone who participates must also be sexist. and then also participate.
you can't fix stupid. i remember being part of dating communities in the past and everyone thought the community was sexist against their own sex, mostly when people challenged their sexist assumptions about the other gender being another but awful and horrible. like all the women who said men were shitty and awful sex fiends thought the community was pro-male. it was hilarious. and vice versa for all the women haters.
what it was was shitty people being shitty and engaging in self-fulling prophecies, for the most part. and it would be funny when they dated someone who didn't fit the 'x is awful' trope... they would complain how 'boring' and 'weird' the person was. the funny thing about the people who weren't sexist as hell... was they never really whined about things being sexist.