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Not enough people drive predictably… Most of the cam cars are just as oblivious as the focus of their clips. They notice what’s happening when it’s too late and then they swerve, honk, and act like the other person caused it and needs to be judged by other car-brained morons on YouTube.
Nor defensive driving. It's taught in driver's ed classes, the DMV emphasizes it in every pamphlet/driving manual/permit test, insurance company sources, and so on. The #1 rule: graveyards are full of people who were legally in the right.
If someone tries to cut you off, put your ego aside and let them merge over. Yes, they're an asshole. Yes, they probably broke a few laws. Yes, they probably do this because they know they can get away with it. But it absolutely is not worth your life, the lives of the people in your car, nor the lives of other people nearby because you want to get into a pissing match with another driver.
You cannot control how other people drive, only your response to their shitty behavior. You see a lot of dashcam footage where the driver reacts to a dangerous situation by deciding to play bumper cars instead of trying to avoid an accident.
back in the late 2000s, i started prioritizing live-work situations where i could drive less. less miles, less frequency, etc. easy to say, hard to implement, but i was committed.
this was legit like 20 years ago, and it took quite some time to actually start making a difference. i remember once spending an entire afternoon exploring this oddly sprawled area with weird residential zoned fragments of homes to find the shittiest rental unit ever that i could walk all my daily shit from. it was gross (fleas), i got burgled twice, once by a crew of three raccoons, and it used to be where the local dealer lived so rando characters would drop by. there were also the occasional shouting contests among drunks at midnight. my situation has improved so i'm not at that place anymore, but i was there for like 3 and a half years lmao. and the value of being able to work/school and get grub without starting my car was huge. i could never go back.
but one of the things i noticed is that now that i drive infrequently, i am significantly more of a defensive driver than i was. if it's a place where there's potential pedestrians or cyclists, i am always a little under the limit and i'm watching like a hawk, audio turned down. i'm predictable, i do things slow and deliberately, i know my route and alternates ahead of time. and i have everything adjusted/gps/phone all set up before i put it in gear. if i miss a turn, i take the long way round nice and easy. because, really, who gives a shit about an extra 15-20 minutes? i mean, besides from everybody else on the road jockeying ruthlessly for an extra 4 seconds.
when i ride with people who drive all the time, they are noticeably more cavalier and routinely distracted.
also, as a daily pedestrian, every day i see drivers doing dangerous shit and probably once a week i get to have a close call with an oblivious one who can't see the giant human in bright colors walking across the downtown ped crossing with flashing lights and just blows through with a panicked look on their face.
The honking gets me so irritated when I make the mistake of watching dashcam or helmet cam videos. People will waste precious seconds hitting the horn instead of immediately taking defensive maneuvers. Some dingus ran through a stop sign right in front of me the other day and I had to swerve off the road to avoid the accident. If I had tried to honk at the fool there would have been contact.
They're also almost always driving too fast for the conditions. Everyone speeding constantly is a huge issue for causing accidents.