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Guys and Girls of the fediverse who have made the decision to end a toxic relationship, did you choose to go to the gym? If so what has been the out come for you since then? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 3 weeks ago by Ste41th@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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[–] dil@lemmy.zip 5 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Youll be better off going to the gym for yourself and not revenge or whatever

[–] Ste41th@lemmy.ml 2 points 3 weeks ago

I went for myself, but I do channel a lot of anger I built up into working out, because that’s where I can vent it all.

Going to the gym in order to get shredded so that you can show off to your ex just isn’t worth it. So I agree you need to go for yourself. The looks are just a cherry on top.