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Man, I use headphones around my own house when I'm listening to something while cooking or cleaning or something like that in a shared space.

Like not if I'm watching the TV or gaming on the TV as I'm in the designated space to make some noise, so long as it's not carrying across the house. If you don't care to listen to my show or whatever, go to another room. Or if I'm home alone, I'll play my music, video, podcast or whatever openly on my phone because it isn't annoying anyone.

But as soon as I'm just trying to do my own thing in a shared space with others around trying to do their own thing, even at home, I ALWAYS put headphones in out of respect. I don't often get the same courtesy... but then, I can just drown out their bullshit with headphones if I want to, so not worth the argument. My wireless earbuds case is in my pocket at all times for this reason.

I also always have headphones in while shopping. It's a polite attempt to project "Fuck off" to everyone in line of sight. I'm not trying to have small talk with every stranger or acquaintance. I'm trying to do a chore while enjoying listening to Dungeons and Daddies or a YouTube/Dropout video or something. If we're friends I'll pause and pop out a bud. Otherwise, you'll get a nod and a polite smile and you'll be grateful for it. Now fuck off.

Edit: I just realized that I may have given the impression that I'm a teenager living with parents and siblings or something. I'm not. I'm a 36 year old man in my own home with my wife, daughter and a house guest. And despite it being my house, I still give others this courtesy. Just to be clear.