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I think that small talk is an ever constant reminder of the pervasive nature that is 'wanting to be happy'.
Don't get me wrong, there isn't necessarily anything wrong with wanting to be happy. There is something wrong about being willing to sacrifice anything for what you perceive is the thing (or person, or hobby, or whatever) that will bring you happiness.
I think that the reason small talk is so fucking meaningless is because we all are just seeking some measure of peace and happiness in our lives. We simply can't tell everyone who asks that our day is going terribly, for one thing it will make us feel worse โ for another it will also make everyone that has to tolerate us feel worse. So we say "Fine" or "Good" or "Tired" or "The weather has me down" or whatever other instantly acceptable and obvious answer is easiest and ends the interaction quickly.
I think if we allowed people to be more honest with themselves that things like small talk wouldn't really exist beyond trying to fill a silent void. But sure, friendly human noises go brrr.