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How will my crush react to this… 😬 (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

submitted 6 days ago by atheqtpie@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/lesbians@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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I am very shy and very MUCH in denial…

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[–] Vibi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 6 days ago (2 children)

I'm of course not familiar with your communication dynamics with your friends, but your message feels like you are gently saying you're not interested. Saying you kinda like spending time with someone doesn't feel like your heart is into a 'more than friends' relationship. Also, saying you're spending time with someone because you don't want them to be abandoned is very different than honestly sharing that spending time with them makes you feel happy and you very much enjoy their company.

[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 3 days ago

+1 to this, I read it like she was trying to gently indicate she wasn't interested 😅

[–] atheqtpie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 6 days ago (2 children)

Oops, thank you! I ended up confessing and being asked out :D

[–] wizzor@sopuli.xyz 7 points 6 days ago

Good choice, good job congrats.

This makes me happy.

[–] Vibi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 6 days ago

Yesss!!! So happy for you girl!! I tend to find being honest with your feelings is the healthiest for you and others 🩷 I hope you have many cute and fun dates!