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[–] bassomitron@lemmy.world 4 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (10 children)

More context needed. Sometimes my kids are savages, so yelling does occur on occasion. They're usually pretty great, though.

Edit: yikes, people took my comment way too seriously. I don't literally think my kids are savages, jfc. No shit, you shouldn't yell at your kids. I typically don't. But, I am not perfect, and neither is literally every single parent. We're humans and there are days where we have shorter breaking points and our feelings get the best of us, especially when your kids are being super energetic, chaotic, and not listening to anyone. The important thing isn't NOT yelling 100% of the time, it's apologizing and explaining what happened to them afterwards when it does get the better of you.

[–] expr@programming.dev -5 points 3 days ago (4 children)

Yelling is never okay unless there's imminent danger and yelling is needed to prevent it.

[–] GorGor@startrek.website 25 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Never ok? Bullshit. Verbal abuse exists and it beyond not ok, but there is a huge fucking gap between never ok and verbal abuse.

[–] expr@programming.dev 3 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Nope. Yelling isn't okay. Parents are human and may do it anyway, but it's always a mistake and should be treated as such (except in the case of danger as mentioned above). It absolutely should be avoided as much as possible. It's an incredibly harmful thing to do (for any relationship, actually).

[–] zloubida@sh.itjust.works 6 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

I agree. I yell on my children on occasion, but it's a thing I regret every time, yelling is not okay.

Child walking onto the street in front of a truck? Billy please come here, please don't walk into a truck. Never is such a strong word. And I have a mother who yelled, frequently, and I still think there are a few cases. Parents aren't infallible or perfect.

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