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Whats a big problem you are facing? (sopuli.xyz)

submitted 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) by sopularity_fax@sopuli.xyz to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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How can you actively prevent it from getting worse—like starting now/today?

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[–] myszka@lemmy.ml 3 points 5 months ago

I literally know a woman whose parents hated each other, but chose to stay "for her". Guess what, she's still single in her 50s, because her notion of love and closeness is just so completely messed up...

Also her father died of alcoholism.