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Are you still friends with any of your exes? (thelemmy.club)

submitted 1 month ago by may_be@thelemmy.club to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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My ex "K" just broke up with me. She said she would like to still be friends, though, and since the breakup was friendly, I gladly said I was fine with that.

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[–] djsoren19@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 month ago

It's actually my entire friend group rn lol. One of my exes from high school has been my best friend for 10 years. I made up with my ex I dated during college after a super messy break-up and now we hang out and watch anime together. Recently, I had a very short term long distance fling with a guy I met on here, and we still chat about gaming and politics and shit on Discord multiple times a week.

I've definitely had messy and bad relationships that were just unsalvageable, but I really don't like throwing people away after I've shared a bunch of my life with them. The only weird part is how many of my friends have seen me naked.