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Do you believe in unconditional love? (hexbear.net)
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I’m starting to think that I do not, and I suppose it will be one of the greatest tests I face. My partner is convinced that he will do anything for me, simply because “he loves me”, whereas I continue to have boundaries. They’re a bit of a hopeless romantic, honestly, and it seems like they’re trying to recreate a teenage-type love they never had.

I thought I was liked for more than my body, but that seems to be the main attraction here :/ And they almost seem offended when I don’t show the same level of interest in theirs and try to convince me to get on viagra or something (which is completely missing the point).

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[–] TheSpectreOfGay@hexbear.net 21 points 3 weeks ago

no

i love my partner, and it's on the condition that he does not abuse me. if he were to abuse me, i would not love him

it's very unlikely he will abuse me and he respects my boundaries, but that's still a condition