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submitted 1 month ago by Mattypatty222@hexbear.net to c/chat@hexbear.net

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So much.... I'd do anything to have her back. I took her for granted until she was gone.

Nothing can bring you to your knees like a girl breaking your heart (at least in my case)

She started getting heavy into her alcoholism towards the end and just changed... she started lying when she never used to. Thats not the girl I fell in love with. Still, it took her dumping me to finally separate us...

I still think about her all the time and it still hurts.

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[–] Mattypatty222@hexbear.net 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

I gave her 300 bucks while I was in jail because she was behind on rent. The day before I got out (last friday) I told her I was going to call her when I got out. She said fine.

When I did get out she just ripped into me and then blocked me again...

It's just like... "how could she?" I would have died for this girl.

I still would. She had me labeled in her phone as loml "love of my life"

She just changed and I hate alcohol so much. Im not sure if it was the alcohol that caused her to flip moods so much or some sort.of undiagnosed mental health condition like borderline personality disorder or bipolar (not a psychiatrist, so i can't say)

[–] LeylaLove@hexbear.net 2 points 1 month ago

I understand. My previous relationship was with a woman with BPD and addiction issues. Alcohol never really made her do anything too out of character, but it would make her already existing mental health issues unmanageable, both for me and herself.

Honestly take it as a blessing in disguise. People in their addiction have a hard time being good partners, she was going to cause you a lot more pain if y'all were together. Maybe y'all will be able to get back together when she sobers up