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It's so exhausting. I have to live my entire life with a brain that just doesn't work. I break so easily.
Just now I went to empty my laundry out of the washing machine to find that I hadn't turned it on. But I remember perfectly turning the dial, the clicking of it in my hands, and pushing the button to start the wash. I remember hearing it bumping from my room. And none of that ever happened. And then I had a full mental collapse, because I'm remembering things with perfect clarity that never happened, but I can't remember what I did five seconds ago.
If I was normal I could spend my life trying to accomplish things. Trying to have fun and be social and date and work and change the world. But I have to devote all my time and energy to trying to have a functional brain because mine is so broken.
And now I have to go to work and smile at customers and act like I didn't just have a mental breakdown. I wish I could swap my brain and body with a healthy person's. I wish I could live someone else's life.
Me too. I used to have these intense, intrusive (but pleasant) visions where I'm a healthy, able bodied Australian living a fun life (so the total opposite of me in every way.) I wish I really was that person.
oof.... hit right in the relatables
this exact situation happens to us on a fairly regular basis
wish we could say more than mood but... mood
I feel this. Except in my case it's my body that is so broken I can't do anything except struggle to get through each day. It's awful being a lump of meat and electrical activity with consciousness.