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[–] SterlingPooper@hexbear.net 3 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

spoilerI assume that they see me as old and because I'm awkward and neurodivergent, socially inferior as a result. I want to fit in, I want to have things in common, age is an immediate visual differentiator. I assume that people look at me and instantly clock me as a guy who is in college but on older end. I don't think I look 20. I assume that 20 year olds know the difference between them and myself. So before I've even talked to anyone, I already feel that I'm going to be older than everyone. The college demographic is 18-24, while there are older people, most of the students aren't even 25. I don't get a set of 100 kids my age to just flock to.

I mean my concern is being friends with someone and then catching feelings and then I find out how young they are, or they find out how old I am, and then we have to decide if we can mind the gap.

Idk, I guess the normal brain can just like, let things slide off it. I remember things. I'd love if I could magically forget everything, but I can't.