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when i first heard about the male loneliness epidemic i was like oh yeah close camaraderie and bonding between men is often discouraged in favor of competition or, if not discouraged, at least filtered through a lens of individualism that precludes deep connections. and then i learned what people meant by it (men arent getting laid) to which i say skill issue

to all the men out there not getting laid: try less hard to get laid and try more hard to be an enjoyable and relaxing presence

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[–] damnedfurry@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Wait until you find out about the order of magnitude of greater doubt there is when a man is attacked by a woman.

Signed, a male who was molested by a female as a child, then told it's literally "impossible" for rape to happen in that direction when he futilely sought support.

[–] curbstickle@lemmy.dbzer0.com -3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Dude, youre bringing some "exactly that kind of person" energy throughout this thread....

[–] damnedfurry@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I'm bringing empathy for a demographic that's generally starved of it, and frustration toward those who have none for it, is all.

[–] curbstickle@lemmy.dbzer0.com -2 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] damnedfurry@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Dude, youre bringing some "exactly the same kind of person as OOP" energy throughout this thread...