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How do you justify buying something you want but don’t need? (lemmy.sdf.org)

submitted 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) by randomcruft@lemmy.sdf.org to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Hello again Lemmy! I have another question.

Context: I took a motorcycle safety class, was nervous but enjoyed it, researched motorcycles, found a few I liked, talked to a dealer about them but ultimately, I couldn’t finalize a deal, talked myself out of it basically.

I was curious how others might justify a purchase that has no purpose other than wanting something.

For clarity, I don’t need anyone to justify me buying a motorcycle. I want to read about your thought processes for buying something you want 🙂

As always thanks for replying and have an awesome day/night!!

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[–] foxglove@lazysoci.al 4 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Honestly, desire is a justification on its own. If you have limited resources, then it's really about whether you can afford to prioritize those desires or not. For those with enough money, desire is enough of a reason to justify a purchase.

Without enough money, the question is whether the desire outweighs other more practical ways that money could be spent. When I was depressed sometimes I would make irrational spending choices because it helped me feel good and even helped me pretend I was not as poor as I actually was, by spending the money irrationally I could create the illusion of having more money than I had. This was a dangerous game, though.

[–] randomcruft@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 5 days ago

Right, I agree, no one should spend money frivolously (generally speaking). It’s easy to go down a rabbit hole even with a hobby. Then you have to deal with the fallout of that.

Thank you!!