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I feel like you haven't read anybody else's comments other your own, because I and others have already explained it
You so very very much did not. The only difference is that you simply don’t want to make a non-binary person comfortable.
There is absolutely no rule in the English language that states that if you know someone’s biological sex(of which there are more than two but let’s keep it simple) you must use the corresponding he/him/his or she/her/hers pronouns for them. You can 100% use “they” in reference to your own damn mother if you wanted to, it’s all above board.
So, please, explain the difference between the two things you mentioned before. I’m simply dying to hear what you have to say.
Youre actually wrong - I never said I dont use they/them pronouns for people who prefer it; I only said that it doesnt come off the tongue very naturally. It forces a pause in thought because it feels grammatically incorrect.
But to answer your request, here's a comment I wrote earlier that you quite obviously didn't bother to read before replying to it:
So, yes, I did say this before. You just chose not to read it, because you so desperately want to be mad at people on the internet and so you're fighting battles that aren't there
But explain how this is different in an actual grammatical sense.
Yes, it is incredibly minorly different in how it feels and guess what, it gets easier if you stop moaning about it and just lean into it. I simply refer to most people as “they” now and it both hasn’t caused any communication breakdowns and it’s made it super easy to not slip-up. Barely any mistakes these days, and it really didn’t take that long.
You’re making such a big deal out of it and for what?
I feel that you're the one making a big deal about it. I've already agreed to behave according to your rules - but obedience isn't enough for you. You require full on ideological purity as well. If someone tells you "yes i will use your preferred pronouns but bear with me since it doesnt feel grammatically correct, but im playing along because it causes less strife" why isn't that enough for you?
Jesus Christ, why do you want to be the victim so bad? Are you getting off on this or something?
I’m literally saying that no one is mad at you for not being perfect, I specifically said that I’m not perfect either, and that the only reason anyone would ever be mad is that you seem to think it’s important to point that this simple thing is hard and this very grammatically correct thing “feels” wrong.
Geez, calm down. It's just the internet. I can handle pronouns just fine. You can't seem to handle people having different opinions than you