this post was submitted on 30 Jun 2025
46 points (100.0% liked)

disabled

229 readers
16 users here now

Welcome to c/disabled, an anticapitalist community for disabled people/people with disability(s).

What is disability justice? Disability justice is a framework of activism which centers disabled people of multiple intersections. Before participating in in this community, please read the Ten Principles of Disability Justice.

Do I count as disabled/a person with disability(s)? "Disability" is an umbrella term which encompasses physical disabilities, emotional/psychiatric disabilities, neurodivergence, intellectual/developmental disabilities, sensory disabilities, invisible disabilities, and more. You do not have to have an official diagnosis to consider yourself disabled.

Follow the Rules:

  1. This comm is open to everyone. However, the megathread is only open to people who self-identify as disabled/a person with disability(s). We center the experiences of disabled people here, and if you are abled we ask that you please respect that.
  2. Follow the principles of disability justice, as outlined in the link above.
  3. Zero tolerance for ableism. That includes lateral ableism. Ableism will result in a ban.
  4. No COVID minimization.
  5. Do not offer unsoliticed health advice. We do not want to hear about the wonders of exercise or meditation, thank you very much. Additionally, do not moralize health or "healthy choices".
  6. If posting an image, please write an image description for our blind/low vision comrades. (If doing this is inaccessible to you, DM one of the mods and we will help.)
  7. Please CW and spoiler tag discussions of ableism.
  8. When it comes to identify-first vs person-first language, respect the language that people choose for themselves. If someone wants to be referred to as a disabled person, respect that. If someone wants to be referred to as a person with a disability, respect that.
  9. Try to avoid using ableist language. It is always good to be mindful of the way language has been used to oppress and harm people.
  10. Follow the Hexbear Code of Conduct.

Let's kick back and have fun!

founded 8 months ago
MODERATORS
 

If you carry one thing with you today, let it be this: you are beautiful, you matter, and you are loved.

As always, we ask that in order to participate in the weekly megathread, one self-identifies as some form of disabled, which is broadly defined in the community sidebar:

"Disability" is an umbrella term which encompasses physical disabilities, emotional/psychiatric disabilities, neurodivergence, intellectual/developmental disabilities, sensory disabilities, invisible disabilities, and more. You do not have to have an official diagnosis to consider yourself disabled.

Mask up, love one another, and stay alive for one more week.

you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[–] roux@hexbear.net 6 points 2 days ago (13 children)

I'm pretty sure I'm officially in burnout because of work. Last shift, I had a guy take 40 or so stops off of me but still got done when I normally would. Had I not gotten help, I'd have been out until 7pm. That shift was exceptionally bullshit though.

I hate that I've been writing code on and off for 10 years but haven't had a programming job long enough to be worth looking at. I have a portfolio and active github(both linked on my resume) but am consistently getting denied interviews. I just want to make websites because I'm decent at it. But no one local or remote wants to even bother with me. And like, even if I do land a decent paying software job, at this point retirement isn't even an option. I'm now mostly just looking for something that is steady enough to live off of until I die.

I have 4 mobile apps on the Play Store. I have over a dozen websites I've made in the last year, 3 of which are actually live and being used. I'm not sure how big of a portfolio I need at this point to even be considered. I think next week I'm gonna make a fake resume that claims I worked for years at several now defunct companies doing web stuff and see where that goes. Idk. Life just sucks. Ever get the hint that you should just accept your shitty existence for years but still try to ignore it? Not great on your mental health.

[–] gingerbrat@hexbear.net 3 points 2 days ago (6 children)

Roux, you need a break, like a serious one. And while I hope cheating on a resume helps getting you a job, I really do wanna stress that an actual break/vacation/time off without obligations, whatever you wanna call it, is probably the most important thing with the load of bs you have to deal with. I don't want this to sound patronizing, I'm really worried (and also grateful to the guy who helped you out). Please take care of yourself, and I wish I could do more than send you a hug cuddle

[–] roux@hexbear.net 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Last time I went on vacation I started a business doggirl-tears

But for real though, I kind of wanna give it all up and stop organizing because it's all turning to shit too. I made the joke a billion times but I almost just want to go start a commune away from all the bullshit of being oppressed in a capitalist society. I'm tired, boss.

[–] gingerbrat@hexbear.net 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Okay, a vacation removed from anything that can be turned into a business, then...? I feel you though, I tend to start getting busy especially when I have time to chill doggirl-tears

I get the being tired part cri Even if it's just a joke, maybe building a commune really is the way to go. Maybe a commune would give you the chance to actually rest up

[–] roux@hexbear.net 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I also sort of wanna quit this shit job and get back into fermented veggies and just sell those. I was making quite a bit during covid just selling for a few hours on Saturdays. Midlife crisis mode activated lol.

[–] gingerbrat@hexbear.net 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Sounds more like midlife opportunity, hah. And selling fermented veggies is so cool? You really should do that!

[–] roux@hexbear.net 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I was doing that during covid and was making like $300 every Saturday at the farmer's market. We have a community market event coming up and I'm thinking about whipping up a batch of kimchi for it actually.

[–] gingerbrat@hexbear.net 3 points 1 day ago

That's a great idea Care-Comrade

load more comments (4 replies)
load more comments (10 replies)