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I'm pretty sure I'm officially in burnout because of work. Last shift, I had a guy take 40 or so stops off of me but still got done when I normally would. Had I not gotten help, I'd have been out until 7pm. That shift was exceptionally bullshit though.
I hate that I've been writing code on and off for 10 years but haven't had a programming job long enough to be worth looking at. I have a portfolio and active github(both linked on my resume) but am consistently getting denied interviews. I just want to make websites because I'm decent at it. But no one local or remote wants to even bother with me. And like, even if I do land a decent paying software job, at this point retirement isn't even an option. I'm now mostly just looking for something that is steady enough to live off of until I die.
I have 4 mobile apps on the Play Store. I have over a dozen websites I've made in the last year, 3 of which are actually live and being used. I'm not sure how big of a portfolio I need at this point to even be considered. I think next week I'm gonna make a fake resume that claims I worked for years at several now defunct companies doing web stuff and see where that goes. Idk. Life just sucks. Ever get the hint that you should just accept your shitty existence for years but still try to ignore it? Not great on your mental health.
It is literally always moral to lie on your resume. If you've got any buddies who work in the same field maybe you can use the to vouch for your lies too? You've clearly got the qualifications the issue is getting a foot properly in the door, and that's some bullshit
My only friend in the field is pretty by the book on stuff so probably wouldn't lie if I use him as a reference and stuff. I do have a friend that offered to be a reference but he doesn't know the first thing about tech.
I would still ask your friend who is by the book, you never know. And uhhh I guess you can have the other guy pretend to be management, they don't have to know about tech right?
I asked my by the book friend occasionally and actually have 3 job postings pulled up from him that I need to apply to. One is Android dev, which is funny because app dev is an actual hobby of mine even though I'm not good at it.
The other guy, he says he doesn't know the first thing but we are setting up a kanban board and I can tell he at least picks up on stuff. I could give him some script like stuff to say if someone calls him. I bet he could at least bs the HR people.