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You don't have to feel bad about being nervous. I did. It's not unlikely you'll be the only one in that line who decides to opt out. What happens if something goes wrong? Everyone else will be pissed at you. Turns out it's not a big deal. You just ask and there's one less thing they have to do.
Yeah I was thinking that had it been like. Cops or cop-coded individuals I would have been way more scared. But "Do I have to?" is going to be my like. Vomit response to my rights being squeezed on the daily.
And you're right it wasn't a big deal at all but it worried me in a new way which is always fun to notice