Drop the tin foil dude, and go touch grass. I've been around since this thing was tiny. Lemmy isn't even relevant in what you just ranted. Ruud seems like a good guy to me. He hosts this. It is hosted on a cloud server. I'm sure that service is probably collecting data, just like others are doing on several layers of the internet. This place just makes it a good bit harder and more aggregated. Everyone is not out to get you. Like Ruud hosts a bunch of federated servers. His ability to scale as this place grew is impressive. The guy is a mod in the Self Hosted community and as best I can tell, his priorities align well with my own. Maybe they don't align with yours. I'm okay with that. My priorities don't align with reddit, that is why I came here. Maybe there is a better place. I hope you find your place. Please don't troll me with poorly informed ranting and paranoia.