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[–] RagingNerdoholic@lemmy.ca 53 points 1 year ago (10 children)

Are zoomers really like this?

[–] Ataraxia@lemm.ee 28 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm 40. I don't even answer the phone if it rings. If it's important they can leave a message.

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[–] SkyeStarfall@lemmy.blahaj.zone 27 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Sorry if I don't think minor topics are worthy of the immediate attention needed for a phone call?

Phone calls are reserved for emergencies. Otherwise you're just demanding the instant attention of someone for nothing.

[–] JackOfAllTraits@lemmy.world 44 points 1 year ago (19 children)

Not demanding, asking. Declining a call is always an option.

[–] magikmw@lemm.ee 22 points 1 year ago

I like to compare calling to someone knocking on your door incessantly for several seconds.

You can ignore it or decline to answer. It's still annoying af.

[–] SkyeStarfall@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 1 year ago (3 children)

So why call in the first place? And how will I ever know what the call was about? Unless you text, of course, so why not just do that in the first place?

You may not intent for it to be a demand, but unless you have your phone on silent, it will keep ringing and making noise until you do something about it. It demands an action, and tries to get your attention as much as possible.

Which is why it's designated to emergencies. This makes calling more useful as well, because now you know calls are more important, and can actually treat them with more urgency. Otherwise you're just gonna end up ignoring what may be an actual emergency, because you treat every phone call the same.

[–] Spendrill@lemm.ee 5 points 1 year ago (7 children)

Gen X here, only had a smartphone 5 years as before I was avoiding it. Typing is painful. Just answer the phone and we'll get that query sorted in less time than I would take to type the initial question. Don't be a big baby about it.

Millennial here and totally agree. There are times I don't feel like talking and I simply don't answer. How hard is it to answer normally though? If it's not during work hours... If I'm busy I just call back. No idea why this is a weird awkward thing for so many

[–] Jakeroxs@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 year ago (7 children)

Did you know, as with most things, typing on a phone is a skill that improves with use. Get with the times, don't be a big baby about it

[–] electrogamerman@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Why is humanity like this? Can we just agree that different people like to do different things?

[–] Jakeroxs@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago

Fair, I got a little triggered lol

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[–] xePBMg9@lemmynsfw.com 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

If it was not important enough to type it out, you can tell me next time we meet. I'll stop answering your call after the second nonsense call you make.

[–] SnowdenHeroOfOurTime@unilem.org 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Such a sense of entitlement. You're not royalty.

[–] Rodeo@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Nor are you entitled to anyone else's time or attention.

I never said if someone doesn't answer they're an asshole. Unlike what you're saying about incoming phone calls.

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[–] SRo@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You have a psychological problem. You in therapy I hope?

[–] SkyeStarfall@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Can you elaborate on why you think this is a psychological problem?

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[–] cubedsteaks@lemmy.today 2 points 1 year ago

lol exactly why my phone is on silent

[–] aidan@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

When you decline a call you don't know what it's about. The only thing I can think of when I family member calls and I decline a call is that they needed desperate help/were in an emergency and I just hung up on them.

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[–] SnowdenHeroOfOurTime@unilem.org 17 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Phone calls aren't reserved for anything. They're just phone calls. I'm a huge introvert but it's like in one particular way millions of people decided to try and be the most annoying introvert possible

[–] mercury@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I don't think all zoomers are, but a LOT of the people I know are TERRIFIED of phone calls. I was like that too, before I started applying for jobs and had to make like 3 calls a week.

[–] cubedsteaks@lemmy.today 10 points 1 year ago

Yeah, I'm a millennial and use to have terrible phone anxiety. It prevented me from being able to get a job for a long time. I would always try to go in person instead because it was less anxiety inducing but never got a job that way.

[–] Shave_MyBeever@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Gen-x'r here who doesn't even have the phone app on my home screen.

Fuck phone calls!

[–] uis@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That's about outgoing calls. Incoming calls still will be fullscreen pop-ups

[–] Shave_MyBeever@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Depends on the status of the phone when the call arrives.

One thing I enjoy about the Pixel phone experience is the call screening feature. Having a transcript of the callers reason for calling has been a great bonus!

[–] Psythik@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

It's more of a Millenial thing. I'm 35 and I don't pick up the phone ever unless it's an emergency or a job interview.

[–] RagingNerdoholic@lemmy.ca 18 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I'm 36 and if you want to call me, then fine? Who cares? I don't get why it's such a big deal.

It absolutely is not a big deal, this thread is bonkers

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[–] HughJanus@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

How do you know it's an emergency if you don't pick up the phone

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