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How do y’all deal with dating?
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The way someone explained this to me was: you probably wouldn't judge someone else the way you do yourself - certainly not if you knew the context and what they're dealing with.
Personally speaking, I feel like I don't judge someone else the way I judge myself because I don't know the full extent of what they are going through but I have access to all of my thoughts, memories, and every action I did or didn't take. This lowers the possibility of there being a hidden, valid reason for actions or thoughts that I judge myself for compared to others.
This isn't meant to say that MisterMcBolt is right about their self-judgement. Just wanted to point out another possible reason for judging others differently from yourself.