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[–] drkt_@lemmy.dbzer0.com 35 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (3 children)

Why is it so important to them that their antagonists are queer? They keeps mentioning it as if that matters.

I don't know this project or this person, but this reads like someone who has really bad opinions and people told them so repeatedly.

[–] 2xsaiko@discuss.tchncs.de 27 points 1 week ago (1 children)

It’s noteworthy because this is usually the type of attacks a trans person gets from transphobic trolls and not from her own community. Drives the point home that this is not exclusively transphobia.

Maybe. Or maybe OP is queer and expecting special treatment from the queer communities that use Matrix, and not getting it? It very well could be that OP is a jerk, OP's co-maintainer is a jerk, or significant portions of those queer communities are jerks. It's hard to say, but I also find it a bit peculiar than "queer" is mentioned three times, and pretty much all of the links related to the project are queer-related (transfem.dev, for example).

[–] Shimitar@downonthestreet.eu 12 points 1 week ago

Agreed, but still, its a serious loss for matrix, which is already a bit of ashitshow.

[–] brighteast@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I’m confused too. Nowadays everyone is fighting everyone? 🤷‍♂️ Alright, back to IRC it is.

[–] grin@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

oh those netsplits, people fighting for ops.... good old days