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[–] Oberyn@lemmy.world -3 points 23 hours ago (5 children)

While not technicly gone outright , forums

Hate juggling accounts to be part of communities , some forums (have strict rules|ban VPNs|.*) . There's reason they've been succeeded by (subreddits|discord servers|.*)

[–] tiredofsametab@fedia.io 5 points 12 hours ago

Hard disagree. I much prefer forums and still am a member of some. The only thing reddit really had going was how broad and easy-to-create it was. It allowed for non-technical people to make cool, niche forums and people to find and participate.

[–] iii@mander.xyz 35 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago) (2 children)

Oh, I preferred that. There was much less pressure to conform. All fora had their own "personality", in a way. Small little islands inhabited by people having fun in their own ways.

[–] Inf_V@kbin.earth 19 points 23 hours ago

we need to go back to forums

[–] Servais@discuss.tchncs.de 9 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

Isn't this true for Lemmy instances to an extent?

As far as I can tell, not really no except for the weird insular communist ones. What's the difference in personality between lemmy.ca and sh.itjust.works?

[–] Taewyth@jlai.lu 2 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago)

Yeah, no, I really miss the forums days.

In general I miss the pre "just a couple of sites for everything" internet.

And I mean, there's a reason that Discord added a "forum" channel type

[–] P00ptart@lemmy.world 4 points 15 hours ago

I miss forums. If I went to a specific car forum, that's what discussion would be about. No random assholes bringing politics into every conversation. No trolls or people just there to make a joke for upvotes.

[–] ryathal@sh.itjust.works 20 points 23 hours ago

Discord is so much worse than forums though. Lemmy/reddit are better than every website having their own forums though.