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Could use some kind words rn (lemmygrad.ml)
submitted 6 months ago by IvarK@lemmygrad.ml to c/chat@hexbear.net
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Long story short, my otherwise perfectly healthy partner had to go through brain surgery earlier today due to a clot in her brain causing two mini-strokes. She’s fine now and expected to make a full recovery with no lasting damage but man it was so scary :c

We’re barely in our mid-20s this sort of shit isn’t supposed to happen! She has to stay at the hospital until Sunday and we don’t know if there will be rehab and stuff involved. We do know that the docs are going to try their best to find out why it happened.

I feel morbidly vindicated in my impostor syndrome telling me life was going a bit too well in more or less all aspects lately, so this kind of thing feels deserved somehow (for me not for her she’s the most precious thing on earth and deserve only good things)

No real point just wanted to yell into the void a bit. My family and friends are all great for support so I’ll be fine.

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[–] FumpyAer@hexbear.net 7 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

If your partner deserves grace and she loves you, that grace should extend to you as well. Bad things happen to good people all the time for no reason. It has nothing to do with your or her qualities.

[–] IvarK@lemmygrad.ml 1 points 6 months ago

You’re so right. I guess i was trying to do some gallows humor or something in the op, not really sure what came over me :c