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I think I got stood up. (hexbear.net)

submitted 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) by LibsEatPoop@hexbear.net to c/chat@hexbear.net

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It’s someone from work. We planned on meeting at a nice vegan place. I’ve been waiting for an hour. Texted her a couple times at half hour intervals. Dunno what to do.

I mean, I will see her again. Cuz work. Just feels really shitty cuz I thought we could be good friends at the very least lol.

Edit: so, there was a possible explanation. I don’t know how plausible it is tbh. I can see either way. But we both apologized. I’m going to remain hopeful. I laid out my schedule and she said she did want to meet and that we can reschedule. I don’t know when. Waiting for her I guess. I dunno how assertive to be. I’m not good at this shit.

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[–] alexandra_kollontai@hexbear.net 7 points 7 months ago

It sucks, but emergencies do happen - it's forgivable.

Scheduling has to go both ways. Leave it up to her to sort out the next plan. If she doesn't go through with sorting it out, then either she isn't interested enough or she is just awful at making plans - either way, you won't want to persue it any further.