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I think I got stood up. (hexbear.net)

submitted 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) by LibsEatPoop@hexbear.net to c/chat@hexbear.net

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It’s someone from work. We planned on meeting at a nice vegan place. I’ve been waiting for an hour. Texted her a couple times at half hour intervals. Dunno what to do.

I mean, I will see her again. Cuz work. Just feels really shitty cuz I thought we could be good friends at the very least lol.

Edit: so, there was a possible explanation. I don’t know how plausible it is tbh. I can see either way. But we both apologized. I’m going to remain hopeful. I laid out my schedule and she said she did want to meet and that we can reschedule. I don’t know when. Waiting for her I guess. I dunno how assertive to be. I’m not good at this shit.

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[–] Rojo27@hexbear.net 7 points 11 months ago

The good thing is that she asked to reschedule, so take that as a positive. It does suck that she didn't say anything well after the agreed upon time, but take her at her word since she did eventually reply.

In so far as moving forward with a reschedule... I can see how that's tough. I recently asked my crush out a couple of times and she initially said yes, but then things came up at work and I've been struggling with trying to figure out a good time to reschedule myself. I figure with the holiday season more or less winding down January might be a good time to try again. The wait is kind of killing me, but I want to remove the craziness of trying to line up our schedules now. So I feel you on that.