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[-] SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz 48 points 2 days ago

Gonna put this out there: the fediverse is vastly depressing and not very fun. Lacks creative-types, too.

I see why people would choose the alternative.

[-] awwwyissss@lemm.ee 21 points 2 days ago

And full of propaganda, especially from Lemmy.ml

Not surprising to me that its faltering, but very disappointing

[-] DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social 4 points 2 days ago
[-] awwwyissss@lemm.ee 0 points 2 days ago

Twitter and Meta are corporate social media, but the Fediverse has a chance to be something entirely different

[-] DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social 1 points 2 days ago

And organizations, state and private, will attack it because of that chance.

[-] awwwyissss@lemm.ee 2 points 1 day ago

Yeah. They'll also use it to spread their disinformation/marketing etc.

The combined annual budget of all Fediverse instances for addressing the problem isn't enough to buy a pack of gum

[-] tetris11@lemmy.ml -2 points 2 days ago

Hey. Cmon man, every instance has its agendas and bad apples. Some spread pro-US and anti-Russia/China rhetoric, others are flipped.

Yes, a minority of the mods are fucked in some of their values and beliefs but that's true of any instance, and most of the time it's not an issue.

We all harbour our strange 1% ideas that's separate us from the norm, but that's the beauty of the lemmyverse that you can find a server where that's better represented.

Too much? Go to an instance where it's not and chill there for a bit.

[-] Waraugh@lemmy.dbzer0.com 19 points 2 days ago

The general user base is off putting and creates a shit experience. The fediverse will unfortunately never grow beyond a niche platform. It’s a great idea, it’s too bad so many of the people are such shit. Even in this thread another user calmly pointed out what non technical users care about and sure enough, someone with their head so far up their ass they probably haven’t been able to walk outside in weeks is blasting off while smelling their own farts because it’s so inconceivable that some portions of the population may not be as technical or similarly vested in things as they are.

[-] SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz 7 points 2 days ago

Bingo.

Only place I've had folks follow me around to harass me, too. It's disturbing.

[-] DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social 3 points 2 days ago

Press block?

I had some loser follow all my comments and downvote them for a couple weeks but that's all they could do in their impotent babyrage.

[-] Blaze@feddit.org 2 points 2 days ago

Indeed, quite unfortunate

[-] callyral@pawb.social 7 points 2 days ago

My Lemmy experience is kinda shit, but Mastodon is alright

[-] Cube6392@beehaw.org 7 points 2 days ago

i've come to believe that something in reddit's design with the upvotes and the downvotes brings out the worst in people

[-] Kichae@lemmy.ca 8 points 2 days ago

Something that could be fixed if creative types and fun people would just flood the place already. The place is being held hostage by social misers and digital HOA Karens.

[-] SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz 14 points 2 days ago

They will not come here because there's an absolute fuckton of hostility.

My favorite woman-centric community went dark due to lack of moderation. Mods left because it was so damn hostile.

The t×nkie problem is also pretty bad.

Federated spaces will forever be niche spaces, because of all of this. Say "good" all you want, but it'd be great to have mass adoption.

[-] Blaze@feddit.org 5 points 2 days ago

The t×nkie problem is also pretty bad.

Aren't you okay on sopuli.xyz? I now use lemmy.cafe as my main, they block ml, hexbear and grad

[-] SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz 7 points 2 days ago

I am! But I left 4-5 other instances before finally settling. Blahaj especially actually welcomed HB at one point because "trans solidarity", which opened the door to mass harassment. ......again. I was so absolutely disappointed because I was like "hey..don't" and was basically told off.

"Oh you can block them if you don't like it! It's up to the individual!" I'm sure that's fine if you're tough & completely mentally stable, but these people genuinely triggered my PTSD, which had not been a thing that had happened to me in years. It left me and my faith in this whole thing very very shaken.

That aside, I think sopuli only has ML unblocked because it has such large tech communities.

I really really really loved Beehaw, too, but after their talk about moving away from Lemmy, I scrambled to find another home.

An average user is not going to want to continually move around to keep themselves sane & safe.

[-] Blaze@feddit.org 2 points 1 day ago

An average user is not going to want to continually move around to keep themselves sane & safe.

Indeed, I think I'll just recommend lemmy.cafe as the safe recommendation from now on

[-] Kichae@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 days ago

They could outnumber and shout down the existing user base in a day. The number of active users in the fediverse is quite small. A tiny number of toxic people have killed the open social web for the next decade.

[-] tejan@hubzilla.monster 3 points 2 days ago

Unfortunately the loud obnoxious ones ruin it for everyone else.

[-] Cube6392@beehaw.org 5 points 2 days ago

where are you primarily getting your fediverse access, because that's not my experience at all

[-] Evil_Shrubbery@lemm.ee 4 points 2 days ago

Hey, I'm depressive and not very fun, lack creativity too.

I'm not disagreeing, just voicing my well, fuck you too over here.

(But bring some people over, post lemmy links on that skytwatter before it turns toxic)

[-] SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz 5 points 2 days ago

Oh, I don't mind depressive, not-so-fun, lacking creativity people! They're cool! I do mind pointedly depressing and hostile content.

AI art posts? Put it in the trash. Hopeless memes? No thanks. Constant politic-ing pretending to be sincere but it's actually t×nkie pushing? Nope.

[-] Noel_Skum@sh.itjust.works 0 points 2 days ago

I’ll miss you when you’re gone… hope you find a comfortable place that tailors to your specific wants.

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