See, this is exactly drag's point. Narcissists think that they deserve basic respect just for being alive. Whereas you believe that privileges like not being misgendered are reserved only for people who've accomplished great deeds, and can be taken away from people who don't conform to what society expects of them. Your worldview is based on punishment and shame. While a narcissistic worldview is based on entitlement and pride. Something like universal basic income, or open immigration, would appeal to narcissists. While you'd probably complain about people who don't deserve these privileges getting to take advantage of them.