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Yes I understand why people say antagonistic things when they're angry or passionate about something. What I'm saying is that it does no good to turn potential allies into adversaries by hitting their hot buttons. Unless you want your content to only be read by people who are already on your side. Not that echo chambers are all bad - tbh sometimes we need them. The issue before was that there have always been men who treated women like objects. It's also always been true that there have been other men who didn't. The phrasing isn't THE issue but it is AN issue, and it's avoidable by not hanging onto the idea that there's only one conceivable way to say something.