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[–] Frogmanfromlake@hexbear.net 18 points 9 months ago (2 children)

Wtf even is brat? I’ve been hearing about it for months and still have no idea what it means

[–] LeylaLove@hexbear.net 15 points 9 months ago (1 children)
[–] ProletarianDictator@hexbear.net 14 points 9 months ago (2 children)

Does it have anything to do with brats as in the BDSM meaning? Because that's what my initial thought was that I never bothered to double check.

[–] LeylaLove@hexbear.net 15 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I'd assume so, the venn diagram of Charli XCX fans and people who like BDSM seems to be a circle. It's more of a "grungy girl" meaning with the album release though

[–] ProletarianDictator@hexbear.net 9 points 9 months ago

Very helpful. I am unfamiliar with her music besides knowing she made a song or two with lots of radio play that I felt meh about like 10ish years ago.

[–] miz@hexbear.net 12 points 9 months ago (2 children)

I feel like some kind of vanilla rube for not even being aware of a BDSM meaning. what does it mean

[–] ProletarianDictator@hexbear.net 13 points 9 months ago (1 children)

So instead of being an obedient sub who preemptively submits, a brat is a sub that purposefully disobeys in order for the dom to punish their disobedience.

[–] keepcarrot@hexbear.net 9 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I remember being on a road trip and the couple in the back was doing brat play. Far from me to kink shame, but it actually made my skin crawl.

[–] CommunistCuddlefish@hexbear.net 3 points 9 months ago

I have unfortunately had firsthand experience with it in a relationship and I find it cringe.

[–] BurgerPunk@hexbear.net 6 points 9 months ago

matt-grillin just grilling some brats