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What's some really unpopular opinion you have?
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this post was submitted on 11 Aug 2023
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I've been trying to be more willing to listen recently. Of course there are some people who don't want to have a dialogue and will just post their anger and run. I don't engage with these posts cause the user was looking for a reaction rather than a conversation.
But if someone is willing to explain why they feel the way they do about something, willing to hear criticism, and perhaps even ask me questions, I'm more likely to engage with them.
That's great. I was mostly thinking of IRL conversations, but this works too.