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submitted 1 month ago by Gjolin@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

At what step do you struggle the most?

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[-] blaine@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I work from home and live on a sailboat, sailing up and down the west coast (south in Winter, north in Summer). Not exactly a lot of opportunities to develop or maintain social connections other than on Discord/Steam. How would I even meet anyone during the week or so I stay in a given town before shipping out? And who wants to date a guy who's only in town for a week or two per year?

The only way I could maintain a relationship would be an LTR where she lived onboard with me, but I don't see how I could every date someone to establish that LTR in the first place. Kind of a chicken and egg situation.

I may be one of the few guys in the 6, 6, 6 club who's been single for years with no hope of finding a woman. And I just don't think the changes I'd have to make to my lifestyle to make that easier would be worth it. So... I guess I'll just die alone?

[-] stanStani@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 month ago

Wow, are you a developer? How'd you get started with this kind of life?

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