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The original was posted on /r/amitheasshole by /u/missbrunette_23 on 2023-07-27 12:38:56+00:00.

So today I was just sat in my room watching some TV. My mum came in to talk to me and she went on some massive rant about something her sister did that annoyed her.

I was listening to her fully, put my phone down to give her my attention and paused the show I was watching. I was agreeing with her and also wanted to make a few points of my own, in order to you know… have a functioning conversation?

I began to speak about something that had also annoyed me (in relation to what she was speaking about) and she cut over me, shouting and ranting still not listening to what I was saying. I tried to speak again and she tried to finish my sentence for me, before then continuing to rant and rave about what she was saying.

This is when I began to get annoyed, because she finished my sentence for me but didn’t even get it right and she was way off about what I was trying to say.

I calmly told her, “can you please not interrupt me and finish my sentences. You get upset when others do that to you.”

She then started huffing and puffing saying “i guess i just won’t talk to you then, clearly you aren’t listening!” and walked out of my room.

I then just got tired of the whole thing so quietly closed my door behind her and continued watching my show.

This is when things got very heated.

She came back up into my room, screamed profanities at me and called me a large number of cuss names, before telling me never to speak to her again. Then she starting throwing things about on the landing / other bedrooms causing a racket , still screaming things about me.

I began to cry because she always does this and she makes me feel like everything is my fault but maybe it is?

AITA for telling her to stop interrupting me? was it a harsh thing to say??

BTW i’m 18

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The original was posted on /r/amitheasshole by /u/throwaway10394844 on 2023-07-27 12:37:12+00:00.

About a year ago my coworker got divorced. She has 2 kids and one income. We have always alternate weeks on who brings breakfast. This started when she saw me eating breakfast and wanted to try it so I shared some. She liked it and said to bring more then she will bring it the following week. These breakfast are just things you can just buy at the store like yogurt with nuts or frozen breakfast. She has fallen on hard times due to car payments for a few months now so I've been understanding and bringing breakfast most weeks or buying lunch once in a while when she doesn't bring any. She recently told me she took out a $1,000 loan yet she hasn't bother to use a bit of it to buy breakfast. She used the loan to buy clothes for a church event and bills here and there.

It's been a month that she has not brought breakfast. I I have stopped bringing breakfast for her and just myself and deflecting when she asks about breakfast or making excuses. I feel like she is taking advantage of me as one day I brought two slices of bread and she wanted me to share. This isn't the only instance I felt she has taken advantage but I won't go in detail. WIBTAH if I told her I'm no longer bringing breakfast for her too?

Edit: someone mentioned if we are friendly or not and her taking out the loan to pay bills. We are friendly and my coworker took out the loan to buy clothes and used almost half of it for her clothes and accessories (kids stuff hasn't even been bought it). It was only 2 weeks later that I asked what she did with the rest of the money (for bills) to try and guage if she was going to buy breakfast.