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The original was posted on /r/amitheasshole by /u/throwaway10394844 on 2023-07-27 12:37:12+00:00.

About a year ago my coworker got divorced. She has 2 kids and one income. We have always alternate weeks on who brings breakfast. This started when she saw me eating breakfast and wanted to try it so I shared some. She liked it and said to bring more then she will bring it the following week. These breakfast are just things you can just buy at the store like yogurt with nuts or frozen breakfast. She has fallen on hard times due to car payments for a few months now so I've been understanding and bringing breakfast most weeks or buying lunch once in a while when she doesn't bring any. She recently told me she took out a $1,000 loan yet she hasn't bother to use a bit of it to buy breakfast. She used the loan to buy clothes for a church event and bills here and there.

It's been a month that she has not brought breakfast. I I have stopped bringing breakfast for her and just myself and deflecting when she asks about breakfast or making excuses. I feel like she is taking advantage of me as one day I brought two slices of bread and she wanted me to share. This isn't the only instance I felt she has taken advantage but I won't go in detail. WIBTAH if I told her I'm no longer bringing breakfast for her too?

Edit: someone mentioned if we are friendly or not and her taking out the loan to pay bills. We are friendly and my coworker took out the loan to buy clothes and used almost half of it for her clothes and accessories (kids stuff hasn't even been bought it). It was only 2 weeks later that I asked what she did with the rest of the money (for bills) to try and guage if she was going to buy breakfast.