[-] shandrakor@lemmy.world 5 points 5 months ago

Who'll stop Lorraine?

I thought it was about a lady who fell down a hill.

[-] shandrakor@lemmy.world 3 points 6 months ago

I think Idaho Winter by Tony Burgess does this pretty well. It's a wild read.

[-] shandrakor@lemmy.world 3 points 7 months ago

Welcome to the eternal now! You've been here all along!

[-] shandrakor@lemmy.world 3 points 7 months ago

That is exactly how I know ! Glad my library system isn't the only one that does that.

[-] shandrakor@lemmy.world 3 points 7 months ago

For me personally, I used to have really bad heartburn until I started using straws pretty much exclusively. Rarely do I get heartburn anymore and I also don't belch as much either, which I was doing a lot of as well.

I do use metal or glass straws exclusively though, even in the car I have some in a case in the cubby so I don't have to use those awful paper straws if I am ever forced to grab food in the car.

[-] shandrakor@lemmy.world 4 points 7 months ago

I have some glass ones I found in my local dollar store, they're wonderful

[-] shandrakor@lemmy.world 3 points 8 months ago

He's also so so funny! I expected a dark humour but he is so sharp and witty.

[-] shandrakor@lemmy.world 5 points 8 months ago

Okay, so my partner is just recently divorced from his years-estranged wife. He does not know if he wants to get married again, but I do. In loving him and being loved by him I found the reason people would want to tie their lives so fully with another's. You are theirs and they are yours.

This bothered me for a long time, and I promise I'm coming to something (that I think might be) relevant to your situation.

I read a book.. where the crawdads sing? I'm pretty sure. Anyhow a line in the book rang true with me, "we are married like wolves and geese are married" and I love that so much.

So, while you cannot marry her in a legal sense, you can be romantic as fuck.

Also! Just thought of this while typing. Do a commitment ceremony, nothing legal obviously but maybe do a cool cultural marriage ceremony like jumping over a broom around a fire or any of the myriad other marriage ceremonies other cultures use.

Anyhow I'm sorry she's having a hard time and I wish you and yours (and theirs (= ) all the very best. I can imagine a poly relationship could be difficult at times but it sounds like you're doing all the right things.

Stay awesome!

[-] shandrakor@lemmy.world 3 points 9 months ago

I was lucky enough to already be seeing a psychiatrist, and during one appointment I mentioned I was feeling attacked by memes that a friend had been sharing, specifically the ADHD ones. He asked me to show them to him and after three he handed me paperwork to fill out, a questionnaire for my mom and one for me, and then the next appointment he looked at the paperwork for about three minutes and asked if I had any issues with trying a new medication. That was June, and other than my other health issues, life is so much different than I ever thought it could be.

[-] shandrakor@lemmy.world 4 points 9 months ago

Dns blockers for the wiiiiin!

[-] shandrakor@lemmy.world 3 points 11 months ago

Don't forget about virtual influencers which is a horror show I just learned about!

[-] shandrakor@lemmy.world 3 points 11 months ago

Ooooh I have not heard this one before, I like it. I've used cowbro in the past but generally just go for bro-country. Gonna throw supermarket cowboy into the mix.

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