Hasan does not do a good job of actually proving out his statements. He simply vaguely gestures to the consequences of capitalist nationalistic imperialism and says "do you see?". That is not "meeting the audience where they're at" regardless of what anyone here says. It's simply that we agree with these statements. This is not going to get liberals to question the fact that their axiomatic understanding of violence is essentially deferring to what the state considers violence to be. It does not even directly argue that "what is Violence?" is a political question -- it merely dances around that in gesturing to problems. For NYT reading liberals starving the homeless is not a breakdown of the social order, it is the social order. This column fails to prove otherwise.
What is "meeting the audience where they're at" in this column is the "I love free speech, debate, and I was going to engage with Charlie Kirk "the right way"^TM (which is what people like you NYT reader like). However I am sad I no longer have the ability to do that (which coincidentally is how I make my money). So look me up and maybe like and subscribe?"
My point in addressing the "meat" of the article is to disqualify it on its lack of merit in regard to its intended audience, not to put words in your mouth.
What's left when you disqualify the violence argument is Hasan advertising himself through virtues that resonate with the readership of the NYT (e.g. securing the bag). The issue here is that Hasan is not writing this horse shit in good faith and this is exactly where he is bending the knee. He, up until now, did not practically believe in "debate" as anything more than a way to gain exposure and generate content.
The challenge here is that for this to mean anything beyond media careerism we need to square the Hasan that wrote the OP NYT Op-Ed with the Hasan interviewed for this Verge article.
Edit:
Yasha Levine in his latest column explains incredibly concisely what is happening here.