[-] funchords@lemmy.sdf.org 25 points 2 months ago

My 76 y/o spouse loves Linux Mint. The 2017-bought desktop was deemed insufficient for Windows 11 and now runs Mint.

[-] funchords@lemmy.sdf.org 46 points 9 months ago

This video has 7.6M views and was posted 2 years ago

[-] funchords@lemmy.sdf.org 17 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

A lot of the comments so far are trying to stay with the negative connotation to exploitation. You exploit your comfortable shoes to walk further each day. You exploit the microwave oven's ability to more quickly warm your coffee than the stove.

This is the same with discrimination. You choose the raspberry danish over the cheese danish. This is you practicing discrimination, and it's fine.

Any evil in it comes from abuse or impact to yourself with respect to others, that second definition of exploitation in the OP.

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Our (spouse and I) are in a few of these funds. Is there a retirement calculator that figures out projections of these always-adjusting funds?

The Fidelity "Monte Carlo" simulation seems to not adjust with them even though these funds do.

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Susan Oliver was playing a green-skinned Orion slave girl, but I had to test her makeup because she was too expensive and I was under contract already; I was cheap, they had to pay me anyway. The makeup they put on me was green as green can be, but they kept on sending out the rushes and we would get it back for the next day, and there I was just as pink and rosy as could possibly be. This went on for three days until they finally called the lab and said, “What do we do? We’re trying to get it green.” And they said, “You want that? We’ve been color-correcting.”

Excerpt from: The Fifty-Year Mission: The First 25 Years

[-] funchords@lemmy.sdf.org 28 points 9 months ago

Yes. When somebody else has a better take and I want it to be the top comment, I will downvote mine.

[-] funchords@lemmy.sdf.org 26 points 9 months ago

I (age 60) remember buying my condo in 1991 or so, interest rates about 7% with a VA-guaranteed loan. My parent's first mortgage was 2% or 3% but my mom, a Realtor, said those days were permanently gone. (They weren't. I had that in the house I bought in 2010.) But it felt forever at the time, and she thought it would be forever.

Nothing is forever. It may crash, but something else we can't imagine might happen too. I think we all agree the present situation is unsustainable.

[-] funchords@lemmy.sdf.org 14 points 9 months ago

I use a credit card because our laws in the USA protect credit-card purchases better than they do debit-card and other electronic purchases.

Although I use a credit card with revolving credit, I always pay the full balance each month. In this way, it acts as a debit card, but I get the benefits of a credit card. I have to remember to pay it on time, but I can set up autopay even for that.

My credit union (a kind of non-profit bank owned by its members) is the issuer of the card, and it gives a 2% cash award for credit-card usage.

[-] funchords@lemmy.sdf.org 15 points 9 months ago

The result of about half of recent lander missions from Earth is failure.

The USA hasn't tried one recently.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_missions_to_the_Moon

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submitted 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) by funchords@lemmy.sdf.org to c/loseit@discuss.tchncs.de

My first post about this was here. I and others got together and created the Quick Start Guide currently on Reddit. We need a Lemmy version, so this is my attempt at this blending ideas from the two. Suggestions welcome.

NOTE: This guide is meant for adults who have completed puberty years ago. Teenagers should start with their doctors, as they have additional considerations not included in this guide.

Our habits are our destiny.

Since our current habits led to being overweight, and our habits in the future will maintain our desired weight, this needs to be a gradual effort to change habits. It's not a quick "diet" or a complete shift to a new way of living. Instead, it's about fine-tuning and modifying what we currently eat. We can lose weight and maintain it by adjusting our favorite foods, flavors, and the way we usually do things. By personalizing the approach, we're more likely to stick with it and successfully make these habit changes.

How to get Started Losing Weight

To lose weight, your body needs to burn more calories than it gets from the food you eat. When this happens, you'll gradually lose weight over time. This idea is often talked about using the term "Calories in, Calories out," or CICO. The part of the equation that deals with the food you eat, which is the "Calories In" side, is the one you can control the most. It's the most important focus when you're trying to lose weight.

This guide is a simple way to get started with weight loss.

The Plan

Perfect is never required.

Don't procrastinate for the ideal moment to begin because it might never arrive. Don't assume you'll feel more driven tomorrow, as motivation will always be inconsistent. Waiting until you have all the answers is also a trap, as that day might not show up either. You don't have to find the flawless diet or exercise routine. Start now and adapt as you move forward.

Download a calorie tracking app. Any of these will do:

  • Cronometer
  • FitBit
  • Lifesum
  • LoseIt!
  • Macrofactor
  • MyFitnesspal
  • MyNetDiary
  • Nutritionix Track
  • Yazio
  • Enter your current stats as part of the sign-up process
  • Choose conservatively for normal daily activities (If you exercise, you can add it in separately for more accuracy. Do this conservatively, too.)
  • For the first week, set your goal to Maintain my Current Weight. Your goal for this first week is just to get in the habit of logging.

Week 1: Commit to Logging Your Food

For this week, just write down what you eat every day. Don't worry about calories yet. Get used to it: check food labels, actually weigh and measure your food and drinks, and keep track of how many calories you're having using a calorie tracker.

Buy and use a digital kitchen food scale and good measuring cups to measure portions, at least for the first couple months of counting. You can also use your hand to estimate portion sizes as well as common objects. You will be calibrating your eyes to do this more quickly later, but for several weeks use these tools as often as you are able.

Starting this week, make sure to log your activities every day, and expect frustrations. These first weeks are hardest. Life has its twists and turns, and plans can shift. Remember, it's completely fine, and it is not happening so fast we can't adapt! Just keep track of things. As long as you're keeping a record, you're still in the game. Even if you're dealing with a crisis, the moment you log your next meal, you're right back on track. Don't worry about the high or low totals occasionally, steering towards our right habits are more important. Don't give up. Your log is a tool, not a critic. The aim isn't a flawless log; it's about having the details that will help you understand and manage your longer-term eating and weight.

[Further Reading: Studies Show that Logging Helps Lose Weight]

Week 2: Setting our weight-loss goal rate

Now that you are used to logging, you can start focusing on a calorie goal. Enter at most -1 lb/week or -500g/week weight loss into the tracker, and it will provide you with a calorie goal.

During this week, aim to stay within 100 calories of this target, but don't stress if you occasionally go a bit above or below. The goal is to balance it out over time. In the upcoming weeks, you'll gradually make progress towards reaching this goal.

If you haven't already, take progress pictures of yourself, and start recording your weight every day. Remember that your weight will fluctuate quite a bit day to day, so enter your weight into your calorie tracker to see the long term trend.

Week 3 and beyond: Small, doable improvements

To make weight loss last, your strategy should be something you can keep up with over time. It's better to make small, steady adjustments that help you form healthier eating habits. While making big changes might bring quick scale results initially, it doesn't make habit changes nor fit your long-term life. Temporary measures only have temporary results. Stick with YOUR life and tuning YOUR habits.

Tip: Subtract by adding

It is easier to replace things than to eliminate them. A few examples:

  • Aim to take a 20-minute walk on a few days this week. Grow this slowly.
  • Swap out your usual nightly snack of chips for either air-popped popcorn or an apple.
  • Choose a vegetable as a replacement for one of the sides during dinner.
  • When visiting a restaurant, preview the menu online and opt for a healthier menu choice.

Use your logs from the previous couple of weeks to see where you can make small changes to get closer to your calorie goal. Look for the "low-hanging fruit" that give you more calories for smaller changes.

Only you can lose this weight, but you are not alone

Lean on the community for advice and support, and give some support of your own. It feels less alone when we do this together.

How to Stick with It

Make the good choices the easy choices

Losing weight requires self-control, yet it's best if you don't have to rely on it too much. Make sure you always have healthy, low-calorie, and filling foods ready to go. Some examples include apples, oranges, berries, cut-up vegetable snacks and light popcorn. Keep these foods easily accessible at the front of your fridge. Avoid buying big packages of unhealthy snacks. If you want something less healthy, just buy a small portion from a convenience store. It's easier to use self-control once while shopping than to resist temptations throughout the week at home.

You don't have to go hungry

You should eat the calories you're aiming for without feeling hungry all the time. When you're not hungry, it's easier to make smart choices. If you have to go slower in your progress, that's okay; it's better to go slow than to quit. Eating more satisfying foods can help, like those with more fat, protein, and fiber. Foods with simple sugars are less satisfying and might even make you want to eat more.

While both are natural forces, cravings and hunger are different. We should always eat enough, so if it makes sense that we are actually needing food, we should eat. To identify if you are craving, think about if you would eat an apple or other healthy vegetable. If not, it is a craving. Sometimes it's still the right answer to feed the craving, but it may not need a full meal or a large serving.

Plan Ahead, but Variety is Important

We get our nutritional coverage by varying our food daily. Many of us have a simple go-to meal, but the other meals in our day are varied. This makes sure we get our essential minerals and vitamins, fatty acids and enzymes.

When Things Go Wrong

Keep tracking through the skid. Everything else is rather optional and opportunistic, but if we're tracking, then we haven't quit. Most important is not quitting.

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Infinity (1996) (www.youtube.com)

I recommend this. I found this rather unknown flick looking for something to watch with my YouTube Premium subscription. Rotten Tomatoes had it on their list.

Infinity was directed and starred Matthew Broderick and was written by his mother, Patricia Broderick. With a $5 million budget, it earned less than $200,000 at the box office.

The younger years of Nobel Prize-winning genius Richard Feynman is the background to this underrated love story.

I don't know how these things work, but the ending credits make it look like a Broderick family indie project. Despite being formatted for a 4:3 TV, some of the New Mexico exteriors are lovely!

Free on YouTube Premium or with ads

Rotten Tomatoes 63%

IMDb 6.1/10

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[-] funchords@lemmy.sdf.org 12 points 9 months ago

Unfortunately, I'm finding Lemmy 2023 just as shallow as Reddit 2023.

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World’s largest study shows the more you walk, the lower your risk of death, even if you walk fewer than 5,000 steps

[-] funchords@lemmy.sdf.org 13 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

I'm keeping to my policy of only subscribing to two things at one time, and rotating so that I get to see the seasons of the things that I really want to see.

I've never been much of a pirate, mainly because I do believe in supporting those that produce the art that I love. That said, I am a big user of the library. And when there's some FOSS product that I like, I support it. And while I could and can buy commercially now, I remember the days when I couldn't and I survived on FOSS and the library.

With that said, let me say that I think that the content industry shoots itself in the foot when it creates these higher prices, obscene length of copyright terms, polluting their own products with commercial ads ,and fake scarcity. They deserve all the piracy that their own behavior generates!

I think Mike Masnick has it right. The best defense against piracy is to compete against it with superior offerings.

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submitted 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) by funchords@lemmy.sdf.org to c/loseit@discuss.tchncs.de

This is a 13 to 14 minute TEDx Talk by Ocean Robbins, a grandson of the Baskin-Robbins family, arguably the biggest names in ice cream.

Quote: What if we ask, not "What do we want NOW?" but "What do we want MOST?" -- Ocean Robbins from Eating Your Way to Happiness | Ocean Robbins | TEDxAlexanderPark

Edit: TEDx

[-] funchords@lemmy.sdf.org 22 points 10 months ago

As usual, I have typed 500 words when 50 will do, and for that I apologize.

Go to those instances and read what’s there

No, I do not care to and why would you do that? You already have determined it's not right for you. Any alleged content problem that you have to see by going there would, if true, be a problem there. Does that make it a problem here? If I have to take extraordinary steps here to see it here, isn't that on me? Isn't the apparatus doing what it is supposed to be doing if I seek out a thing and find it?

The ultimate measure of freedom is the freedom to abstain. (Nobody is forcibly opting us in to reading their content.)

I'm just a regular user of SDF so these things aren't up to me, but I would think that it would take more than "because it exists." Defederation and Federation shouldn't be used to signal alignment and nonalignment of expression, but for reasons of managing the network itself. A telephone company provides service to everyone and doesn't care what you do with your phone. But, if someone is using it in a way that disrupts the network itself or others' ability to use the network, the telephone company should act to protect the overall integrity of the network. Even then it wouldn't silence the speech because of the speech, but because of the network.

Their instance continues to exist without us, their free speech continues, but by remaining federated we are giving them a platform.

Look, it's one thing to be put off by someone going out of their way to affront you. It's another to feel affronted after going out of your way to find if there is something objectionable anywhere. By that logic, since you have found something then defederation alone should not be enough, as "we are giving them a platform" still, because other people might visit there directly instead of through federation. Therefore, due to that situation, they should not have an DNS entry so you work on their Registrar to "deplatform" them. Then, because someone can connect using an IP address, their ISP should disconnect their service or else they're providing their ISP as a platform. But as they can get another ISP in this day of mobile connectivity, you could chase down their power company, yes, because their power company is a platform -- as is their landlord -- as is their employer. And so on.

I remain unconvinced.

[-] funchords@lemmy.sdf.org 37 points 10 months ago

If I am reading the situation wrong, I apologize.

The reason that I am not a member at beehaw was because they were overly wrapped up in concerns such as this one. I'm here for enjoyable chats with people, not to take sides in the latest macro-politics or causes or whatever lately is stirring the pot or making the winds blow. These things are fine and some people are interested in them, but I'm turned off by the idea of an instance that is particularly identified one way or another when I am not concerned with any of that.

What I'm looking for are kind souls that share an interest in technology and an instance that was widely federated so that a wide variety of my interest groups (music, weightloss, networking, ancient Stoicism) are available. That's why I joined here. SDF has been around a long time and many who have enjoyed its offerings have held many different opinions and yet shared this resource peacefully.

I'm particularly turned off by people that want a silo with only the right causes, only the right thinking, only the right speech.

That doesn't mean we shouldn't have management and protection of against those that are unkindly trolling or actively trying to do technical damage. Ban those actually doing evil. But if people of good cheer share different views kindky as neighbors and friends, I have no problem with that and don't want to see that roped off.

Remember the two rules of FidoNet? "Don't be excessively annoying. Don't be easily annoyed." That's all I'm saying.

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Hello to my friends who are winning at losing!

So what's your story?

Are you just starting? Are you in the middle of your journey? Are you taking a pause? Are you in the final rounds? Have you been keeping it off for a while?

Is this strictly a fat loss effort or are you working on fitness too? Any other self-improvement things going on right now?

Are you doing this just with behavioral modification? Are you being assisted with some of the latest medications or surgeries available to us now?

Let's get to know each other!

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Just for today (lemmy.sdf.org)

This was passed out at my TOPS meeting ...


Just for Today

Just for today - I will stay on my diet.
Just for today - I will write down everything I eat.
Just for today - I will count calories and measure my food.
Just for today - I will busy myself during my difficult times.
Just for today - I will take the time to think about what I do before I do it.
Just for today - I will be in control of the emotions that send me into the kitchen time and time again, searching for something that isn't there.
Just for today - I will act like the intelligent person that I am, realizing that I am not perfect and that I can fail without the world coming to an end.
AND IF I FAIL?. . . . .
Well, just for today I will pickup the pieces and try again.

TOPS NEWS, June 1981


Hope it helps someone... if even just for today.

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submitted 10 months ago by funchords@lemmy.sdf.org to c/thrifty@lemmy.world

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.sdf.org/post/1422052

We enjoy the Voila! Three Cheese Chicken from Birds Eye $6.49 But we add our own additional frozen vegetables (plain, 1 pound, Italian blend) and cubed boneless skinless chicken (marinated for a day, then cooked and cubed) to make it come out to about $2.25 per serving (4) and about 300 Calories.

For $2.50 in the added ingredients, double the yield and improves the carbs, sodium, and protein. The calories are virtually identical.

The 21 ounce Birds-Eye package says that it serves three, but in practice we find that it serves two. Add your own generic frozen veggies and cubed cooked chicken and you serve four.

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submitted 10 months ago by funchords@lemmy.sdf.org to c/frugal@lemmy.world

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.sdf.org/post/1422052

We enjoy the Voila! Three Cheese Chicken from Birds Eye $6.49 But we add our own additional frozen vegetables (plain, 1 pound, Italian blend) and cubed boneless skinless chicken (marinated for a day, then cooked and cubed) to make it come out to about $2.25 per serving (4) and about 300 Calories.

For $2.50 in the added ingredients, double the yield and improves the carbs, sodium, and protein. The calories are virtually identical.

The 21 ounce Birds-Eye package says that it serves three, but in practice we find that it serves two. Add your own generic frozen veggies and cubed cooked chicken and you serve four.

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We enjoy the Voila! Three Cheese Chicken from Birds Eye $6.49 But we add our own additional frozen vegetables (plain, 1 pound, Italian blend) and cubed boneless skinless chicken (marinated for a day, then cooked and cubed) to make it come out to about $2.25 per serving (4) and about 300 Calories.

For $2.50 in the added ingredients, double the yield and improves the carbs, sodium, and protein. The calories are virtually identical.

The 21 ounce Birds-Eye package says that it serves three, but in practice we find that it serves two. Add your own generic frozen veggies and cubed cooked chicken and you serve four.

[-] funchords@lemmy.sdf.org 20 points 10 months ago

As an audio enthusiast, it sucks that I can’t upgrade my stereo/audio system.

Exactly! I can have the system I want but having it somehow means no heated seats in the winter.

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