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[โ€“] dipshit@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 11 hours ago

I'm grateful that after coming out and becoming a much better person I have begun to experience the feeling of being hugged for real. Even though I had friends before they never would've hugged me, they always said hugging is "gay" and I unfortunately agreed with them (though now I'm a trans lesbian so who's laughing now ๐Ÿ˜ˆ).

[โ€“] dipshit@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 11 hours ago

Obviously not gay, just two girls who really like each other. Not gay whatsoever ๐Ÿ˜

[โ€“] dipshit@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 11 hours ago

Yeah similar story here, I'm not an enby, I am binary trans, but I'm still not sure if I would be treated poorly/differently than cis women going topless.

[โ€“] dipshit@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 day ago (2 children)

NGL I'm kind of going to miss being able to go to the Beach shirtless once they grow in. Will be totally worth it though to be my authentic self ๐Ÿ˜Š

 

Want to know some of the weird and wrong things you believed back then. I used to believe a lot of dumb things, some of them were dumb in a funny way, others in a hurtful right wing way, but many of those things were wrong and pretty dumb looking back.

[โ€“] dipshit@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Congratulations, I hope you have a speedy recovery.

[โ€“] dipshit@lemmy.blahaj.zone 29 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I remember this guy. I remember giving him way too much praise back when I was a stupid right wing bigot. I regret that deeply, he is a horrible person and this just goes to show it even more.

[โ€“] dipshit@lemmy.blahaj.zone 31 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (4 children)

I just don't want to, I don't like skirts and dresses as weird as it sounds. I'm very tomboyish and prefer wearing more masculine outfits, I prefer pants over skirts or dresses, and shorts during the warmer weather.

 

I don't really like chocolate much. I'll eat white chocolate, but milk chocolate and especially dark chocolate is kinda gross to me.

I don't remember that being a thing ever. I remember at one point people would talk about chocolate being amazing but I never heard it being specific to girls. Actually my family used to make chocolate deserts a lot and I ended up getting very sick of it. I'll eat white chocolate but if given the option between something that has dark or milk chocolate and something that doesn't have chocolate I'll choose the thing without chocolate.

I probably would've done the exact same thing.

[โ€“] dipshit@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 3 days ago (1 children)

My week is okay. I've been hanging out with some friends I met at a pride event, they seem really nice. Two of them are NonBinary. I haven't met someone who's NonBinary before but they seem like really nice people so far. I hope we can be good friends.

I think it has been reclaimed by the community, though I'm doubtful that the old man with a MAGA hat who called me a dyke is aware of that or using it in that kind of way (yes he was literally wearing a MAGA hat).

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submitted 6 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) by dipshit@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone
 

I know that it's an awful and homophobic slur but it made me feel weirdly validated to be called a slur that's usually only used on women (lesbians). I don't know, it's weird. Part of me is upset that they called me a homophobic slur but a part of me is also euphoric for being referred to, even indirectly as a woman. Does anyone else relate to this experience?

(By the way I'm a transfem lesbian.)

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Farewell lemm.ee (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) by dipshit@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/trans@lemmy.blahaj.zone
 

Despite its challenges lemm.ee will forever hold a special place inside my heart. When I signed up to lemm.ee I was younger, more aggressive. Less mature. I did many things to hurt people, I didn't realize that it was because I myself was hurting inside, it took me far longer to realize that. And even though it was communities on lemmy.blahaj.zone who helped me find myself. I still feel that I owe some of it to this instance who gave me a home here when no one else would've. Thank you to everyone here who tolerated the rude and aggressive young man I used to be, so I could finally come out as the woman I always was, so I could realize the pain I always had but never knew I had. And for that I want to say thanks to lemm.ee. lemm.ee wasn't just a server, it was a community. I hope I can have new and joyful experiences on lemmy.blahaj.zone, but no place will feel more like home to me than this place. Farewell lemm.ee. You will be missed.

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