cinnamon

joined 2 months ago
[–] cinnamon@lemmy.cafe 11 points 2 weeks ago

Our problems actually did start during Covid but I don't think the pandemic / the lockdown had anything to do with it. But that was when we moved to a new apartment for the second time and my wife started to realize that she was the one taking care of everything.

[–] cinnamon@lemmy.cafe 9 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

We definitely also grew apart. I have been really bad at keeping the relationship alive. Like, in the 10 years we've been together, I've been able to maybe arrange a handful of date nights. I never initiate doing anything fun, like a surprise weekend trip or a special date night, because I'm so bad at planning and arranging things.

I think that at the beginning my wife ignored some of the ADHD red flags that were definitely already there because we were so in love. When we moved to a different city two years into our relationship she took care of everything but it wasn't an issue then. Eventually she realized that she was taking care of everything all the time.

[–] cinnamon@lemmy.cafe 25 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

Yes, we've talked about this many times. She knows I've been trying but she needs be to become more responsible, reliable and "more of an adult" than I seem able to. And she blames me, rightfully so, for wasting a whole year doing nothing.

[–] cinnamon@lemmy.cafe 1 points 3 weeks ago

Thank you! I actually do like LibreWolf, was just curious about other browsers

[–] cinnamon@lemmy.cafe 1 points 1 month ago (2 children)

It's DuckDuckGo's VPN. I switched it off, suddenly PlayStore worked.fine again, switched it back on, PlayStore still works. Huh.

[–] cinnamon@lemmy.cafe 4 points 1 month ago

Android and/or Linux Mint

[–] cinnamon@lemmy.cafe 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Thank you! I already use it, was just curious what else is out there :)

[–] cinnamon@lemmy.cafe 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Nothing! I already use it on my desktop but just wanted to know if there are other good browsers out there :)

[–] cinnamon@lemmy.cafe 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I don't know how to boot into safe mode but turning off the vpn fixed it :)

[–] cinnamon@lemmy.cafe 2 points 1 month ago

I had tried that :) turns out it was thevpn

[–] cinnamon@lemmy.cafe 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I'll try that as well, apparently it was indeed the vpn causing the issue

[–] cinnamon@lemmy.cafe 8 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Thank you, it was indeed the vpn! Kinda weird because it didn't use to cause any issues in the past. Thank you!

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