Ohhhh, I love that!!! Sounds like so much fun ❤️

For me: it's Locktober! Goddess has been in control the whole month. The most recent thing is this: I came in my chastity cage for the first time!

Goddess and I got back from a little travel and she told me she'd been thinking the whole time about making me cum in my cage 😳

She brought out our new magic wand and started playing with it around my cage (and the surrounding area), trying different areas. I asked to try to control it myself, and she let me. Eventually found a reaaallllyyy good spot on the top-ish, medium vibration.

Goddess took the time to kiss me everywhere, bite my neck, and tell me how cute I was with painted nails and my chastity cage and how I was all hers. I ended up edging the first time because I didn't know if I was allowed to cum!

But once she saw me edge, she REALLY wanted to see me cum and stepped up all her efforts to kiss/bite/tease me while I kept the vibe on my cage. I slipped a little into subspace and was focused entirely on cumming for Goddess. And I did!!

First orgasm in 20 days. Felt different than regular orgasms! So good, though. I kept the vibe on my cage for a good 20 seconds after I came, just riding that high. Goddess put a bit of cum in my mouth and told me to swallow, which I did.

Got mine in my late 20s! Huge fan. A good part of it was really that I've never dated a person who has had great experiences with birth control. Also, y'know, creampies are hot.

IMO, part of it is simply that most porn is 1-2 people. While there are ways to make a 2 person porno be bisexual-friendly (at least to me), it's not common. But you're right overall, the industry needs to step it up!

This is SUCH a good one. It's fine to not find something/someone hot, just move on with your life!

I mean hey, I thought that might be the case for me, but uh... one thing led to another and it turns out sucking a cock in real life is incredibly hot. YMMV though 😅

Mastodon's a good option - it is to Twitter/X what Lemmy is to Reddit. There are NSFW specific servers like kinky.business and kinkyelephant.com .

Also would look at places like FetLife and BDSMLR to see if either appeals to ya.

Honestly, nah. I prefer to be locked in, and I'm not sure that I could focus on something else when there's good porn on.

I might make another comment here with a longer story but here's a quick one:

Second, after it had been about 2 weeks since I'd came (sickness + a houseguest), my goddess decided it had been too long. Of course, I made her cum before she even touched me. Then she edged me a good ~10 times. She called me "good" after each time I told her I was getting close, which I thanked her for. It was the most I've ever been edged, I was making some really pathetic moans at the end. She climbed on top to finish me off inside of her. I kept getting too into it and moving my hips too much, which meant I fell out of her a couple times. I had to learn to let her do her thing and not give into the urges. Eventually came inside her and thanked her.

I made some significant progress in opening up to my partner and had some fun along the way.

First off, I put on my chastity cage and sent her a snapchat (captioned with the location of the key) from bed where the cage was visible. She took the key and told me next time I need to ask to be locked up for her, which I liked. She asked me if I wanted to touch her or if I wanted to cum. Of course, as a good sub, my answer was to touch her.

I ate her out and made her cum twice, then she asked me to pick a number 1-3. I chose 2, which meant 2 more days locked up before I could cum. Which is the longest I've ever been in chastity and was very hot! She even went to the gym with the key around her neck and said everyone was going to see the key...

I got her off a few more times over the next couple days. We had a good, long chat about our D/S dynamics and what each of us wanted, though I didn't really disclose much in the way of crossdressing during this. We talked about things like collaring, names, punishment, etc. Very good talk.

Sunday came along and I didn't know what the plan was but was obviously very excited. She asked me to shower beforehand, so I was released from my cage. After I asked her if I should re-lock myself to which she replied "do you think you should?". Obviously the answer was yes. But from there, I took a risk. While she was getting ready, I put on my lacy bodysuit (the same one from my profile pic). She didn't know I had this (or any lingerie), so my heart was beating out of my chest as I walked through the door.

Luckily, she loved it. She even helped me to one of the back straps that I couldn't get myself 😅 after that, she put on her strap-on, put me on my knees, and made me suck it. It was really hot and I got it down the deepest I'd ever taken it thanks to her help. She kept telling me what a pretty mouth I have and how I was born to suck cock. Needless to say, I leaked a LOT of precum during this.

After that I got down to business as she showed off her new crotchless panties. I ate her ass for a bit before starting in on her pussy and making her cum twice, getting a moaned "good boy" each time. From there, we 69'd. I was a bit too focused on her pleasure during this but still enjoyed it very much. Then she asked how I wanted to cum, from fucking her or from a hand job. I asked her to make me eat my cum after, so she chose fucking.

We did a few minutes of doggy style before I came HARD in her. Suffice to say, there was a lot. I thanked her for letting me fuck her and she told me to clean her up, which I did. My cum doesn't taste great, but it was still hot, and something I'm bad at doing on my own after I've came.

Basking in the afterglow, we talked a bit about what we did, and she asked a couple questions about the bodysuit. One of which was "was that in the men's/unisex section?" to which I replied "I don't think so but I don't care", which was a fine response. She brought up the idea of buying me lacy panties and making me wear them (would not require any convincing from me, hehe). I still haven't told her everything, but she now also knows I want to wear makeup sometimes, so I've made a lot of progress!

2 thoughts here:

1. During penetrative sex, eh. Honestly, it makes it tough for me to stay hard (despite it feeling good)
2. It can never be a surprise for me. Being clean is a hard rule, so spontaneous butt stuff is a no.

I purchased and tried out another of an old favorite of mine: a vibrating, inflatable butt plug. Forgot how good those vibrations feel when you've got it blown up!!